TW: Abuse – To My Abuser

I was in a relationship with someone who often wasn't my equal partner, nor were they supportive of me, someone who made me feel very isolated in the relationship, made me feel like a problem. But I owe this person a lot. They were beside me through a lot of things, they made allowances for …

The Journey

Last year was a journey for me, many things changed, evolved and new opportunities came to my attention. That's most likely why I took such a long break from blogging. I needed last year to work on myself and my future, which I have done. As you all know recovery and knowledge come with time, …

My Diagnosis

Borderline personality and I have a very strange relationship, we don’t often see eye to eye. Nor do we feel comfortable in the presence of one another, however we attempt to be civil. I received my official diagnoses of BPD a year ago; however it was a battle to get there. I knew I had …

This is me

As much as I'd like to be able to write this blog post with absolute certainty about who I am, I actually haven't figured it out yet and in all honesty, I might never get there, but that's okay! I'm Ash, I love music of all kinds, I'm a qualified chef, carer and I love …